Using Social Media To Win Your Ex Back
In winning your ex back it is important that you make an honest examination of what happened and if there is a chance of getting back. Most relationships end because of small misunderstandings. It often can be fixed through communication. The best way to remedy this is to have a simple talk over coffee between mature individuals, seeking to resolve their differences.
Social media often makes it difficult for a person to get over the agony of a failed relationship. You can see your ex as he or she wades through life this time without you. It can lead to a burst of emotions that sometimes too much to handle. If social media can make you get hurt; you can also use it to your advantage.
Here are some tips that you can use in order to make social media work to your advantage and salvage your relationship with your ex
1. Using social media to communicate. Social media can help in fixing the broken relationship with its messaging and chat capabilities. The trick here is to let the other party to initiate the communication. Remember that you need to observe absolutely no contact right after the break-up. This will prevent things to get far worse and allow you to ruin the last morsel of chance of reunification. Once, your ex decided that he or she is ready to communicate with you don’t be over eager. Just make polite and short messages. If he or she asks how you are doing, don’to jump into it like a crazy rabbit. Don’a reply until after 24 hours. This is also applicable with text messages. The thing to remember do not let the ex feel that you are eager to communicate and let them guess what is really on your mind.
2. Use local media to let people know that you are doing great. Your ex will know that you are doing great if you post pictures with friends and families. Show that you are really coping quite well with the break-up. If you can show that there is life after the relationship with the ex will become intrigued about your sudden zest for life. This will make the ex-lover wants to know more about you as they would realize that the break-up was a big, big mistake.
3. Use local media to show your transformation. After a break-up it is best to improve yourself. Show off your new biceps or show off your new bikini that you bought as you enjoyed the sun in a remote tropical get-away with some friends or family. This will again stir up some interest from the ex to know what is going on. Normally, they would just ask how the trip was and would use the opportunity to get as much information about it. Their goal is to get as much information as possible if you may be seeing someone new. This is an indication that they are already showing signs of jealousy or they have been blaming themselves for letting you go.
In using social media, do not use it just to seek revenge. Is it hard for you to have a failed relationship; it is hard to him or her too. Have some dignity and just make posts that will not hamper any chance to get back with each other. If you feel that there no more chance for the both of you to become lovers again at least do not try to hurt each other. That is the least you can do as civilized people wanting the best to everybody even if they have caused you great pain. In the end you become the better person and come out the winner.